Will the chances of you changing your habits increase if someone told you all day about every bad habit you have and reminded you of all your shortcomings?
Or if they told you all that time you did something good, that time you woke up at 3 am so you can do your morning run?
I don’t think hearing about our failures helps us change, do you?
Now what do we do in our life ? How do we talk to our spouse, or our kids? Or how do change that coworker’s bad behavior?
I think it’s not by pointing out what they did wrong but what they did right. And most likely you will get a better chance of them doing more of what you want them to do.
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