What if you wrote down everything you want people to remember you by, when you are no longer here and try to live by them?
Instead of going after a big house, money, being seen,… how about going after integrity, great kids, being generous, … ?
LL : when you die, no one will write, on your tombstone, that you had money,… but they will say what kind of a person you were! Why not start thinking about it now that you still have time to do something about it?
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