I have found that it’s not much about what we look at, it’s more about how we look at it.
Why do people get frustrated when flights are delayed ?
Why do we fuss when someone is not on time?
What’s wrong with traffic jam or a red light at a traffic light?
This is our reality.
I would rather get to my destination safely than having the plane take off when it’s not safe to do so.
I would rather get to my appointment early and hope the other person does too, after all, hoping is all I can do.
The only thing you can do, is plan for these inconveniences, that way they are not a surprise.