Believe that everyone is doing their best, with what they know and with what they got.
That’s why it’s better to give people new information and inspire them to run with it, instead of judging them, compare them or label them as good or bad.
I remember my father telling me this ” whenever you here someone say something good or bad about an other person, it’s a mirror of how that person sees themselves. ”
That’s why whenever I talk to someone, and they bring up an other person, as a form of judging them, or showing how poor they are doing, or what they do wrong, I loose my interest in the conversation right then and there because it shows not that the other person is wrong, but how this person thinks highly, or superior of themselves.
Remember, everyone is doing their best, with what they know at that moment.