In relationships, one person wonder why the other person doesn’t want to change or seems like they are not trying to.
I heard Esther Perel describe this beautifully and I wanted to share it.
She was asked: “why would I change in order to change the other person?”
Her response was: “because you want it differently and that should be enough of a reason.”
This hit a chord. Sometimes the best way to change others, is to change ourselves!
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