No one wants to be around people who think they are being real with you. We all know those people as mean, self-centered and insensitive. Instead of being real, a little kindness and respect could go a long way. Instead of telling people what they did wrong or their short comings, how about we ask questions? Questions like these:
Hey, I notice you were mean to the server, is everything okay?
How did you come to see world, the way you do?
What’s it like walking in your shoes, with everything you’ve been through?
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