If you were to ask me what is the secret to success? What’s the main thing I believe will get you from where you are to where you are trying to go?
The best secret I have been able to come up with is not having goals and doing everything to reach them, it’s not knowing where you are and having a clear map or steps on how to reach to the top, it’s not having the support from others, social media, friends or family ( although the support would not hurt! The old joke is behind every successful man there is a supportive wife and a surprised mother in law!)
Most people will not get where they want to go, because they are not willing to leave people behind ( mostly their friends and family).
And some are not willing to stop doing what they have been doing. They want that certainty, they want to know what’s next, thus doing what they did yesterday because they know what’s next.
How about this quote: If you keep on doing what you have been doing, you will keep on getting what you have been getting!
Change your life by changing the way you go at it.
What if you stopped talking to them, or hanging out with them?
What if you took a different way home ?
What if you stopped watching TV for 30 days?
What if you stopped eating out?
What if you stopped blaming people ?